In episode #27, we visit with Miah who shares his unique upbringing, starting in Michigan and moving to Durban, South Africa, at the age of five. Through Miah’s story, we learn that fatherhood is a journey of continuous learning and growth. He reminds us that while we may not always meet our lofty parenting goals, it's the daily interactions and the environment we create for our children that truly define our success as dads.
00:01:19 - Miah's Background and Journey
00:02:24 - Miah's Early Memories of Moving to South Africa
00:03:43 - Discussing Michigan Roots and Family Connections
00:05:31 - Miah's Childhood Transition to South Africa
00:07:01 - Parental Influence and Framing Challenges as Adventures
00:07:34 - The Role of Miah's Father in His Upbringing
00:08:08 - Early Memories in South Africa and Family Dynamics
00:09:12 - Cultural Experiences and Family Adventures
00:11:19 - Learning About Father's Past During a Sermon
00:12:05 - The Importance of Communication Between Father and Son
00:13:19 - Miah Reflects on His Father's Approach to Parenting
00:15:05 - Challenges of Fatherhood and Time Management
00:16:16 - Family Traditions and Involving Kids in Decision Making
00:17:31 - Establishing Family Rules and Boundaries
00:18:49 - Intentionality in Parenting and Handling Sensitive Topics
00:20:37 – Miah’s Approach to Discussing Technology and Freedom with Kids
00:22:15 - Miah's Take on Family Traditions and Creating a Family Identity
00:24:37 - The Value of Capturing Family Moments and Decision-Making Tools
00:25:07 - Miah's Desire for More Guidance from His Father
00:26:19 - The Significance of Small Parenting Moments
00:29:37 - The Balance of Independence and Guidance in Parenting
00:32:17 - The Influence of Miah's Grandfather on Family Traditions
00:34:39 - The Challenge of Balancing Parental Expectations and Reality
00:36:05 - Teaching Kids About Family Values and Responsibilities
00:37:11 - Establishing and Explaining Family Rules to Children
00:38:13 - The Importance of Being Intentional with Children
00:39:53 - Creating a Safe Space for Open Communication with Kids
00:41:19 - The Impact of Miah's Wife's Profession on Parenting
00:42:53 - Discussing Sensitive Topics and Empowering Children
00:44:43 - The Importance of Ongoing Conversations About Difficult Topics
00:48:33 - The Importance of Addressing Taboo Topics with Children
00:49:52 - The Approach to Discussing Body Autonomy and Boundaries
00:51:09 - The Gradual Process of Discussing Sensitive Topics with Kids
